Choices and Decisions

So many times I have been asked by someone what is the right decision for them to make about something. I understand that with abilities many are thinking I have the abilities to know which they should choose. The reality is there never is a right versus wrong decision. There are just those choices that are paths in life.

Different choices take you down different paths. Choose this and you go down that road. Choose that and you go down that road instead. Where you end you may think is a good or a bad place for you to be based on the outcome you were hoping for but even where you end up is not bad versus good because no matter where you end up there is something there for you to see and learn from.

Many will get upset if the outcome is not to their liking or causes more problems in their life. Then they will deem that their decision was wrong. It was not wrong of course. That just was not the path they wanted to go down and they couldn’t see that as they stood at the start of the path. They couldn’t see until they got down the path a little bit that it was not the path they wanted to be on.

Can you embrace this? Can you not see it as a negative?

That is all life is. A time filled with choices, paths, different scenery to view and learn from and no wrongs to worry about.

Your higher self can not help you with many of these decisions. The choice is yours because you have freewill, but there are two important things to keep in mind.

NOT MAKING THE CHOICE

The longer it takes you to make a choice or decision the longer you will be in the stuck position. How long do you want to stand at the fork in the road as many walk by you? Not making choices in your life means you are not moving along any path. You are stuck. It is the worst thing to be indecisive. Never be afraid of making the wrong choice. You can always change your mind again about what path you really want to take.

MAKING THE CHOICE

Once you make a choice or a decision you begin walking the path right away. Even if you only made the choice but haven’t figured out the details, it doesn’t matter…your on the move again and this is good. Once you make the decision or choice then your higher self and jump in and offer you help, assistance, knowledge and understanding that you need to accomplish the goals that are on that path.