We as humans commonly label things. We will label them as good or bad or else we will think nothing of them when something doesn’t seem to fall into either category. This is something very serious that should be worked on at all times when working on the self. At all times check the self! If you see something, someone a situation, check what you’re thinking about it. Are you immediately labelling it even though you don’t consciously mean to? It is something that does become habit. So even if you learn different you may not behave different because it has become a habit to your mind to think in that way. We train our minds the way to go at all times and in all thoughts no matter how fleeting. At this very moment you may be telling your mind something you don’t really want or mean to.